Yes, it is down right creepy. Shortly after ILYBINILWY WW had this inflection in her voice that was just plain weird. She stopped wearing perfume and started wearing scented oil that OM gave her. She has basically become OM with her new "spirituality" and "new way of thinking".
All the more reason for me to move on rather than trying to be something that I'm not...
Mentally, I'm much better than I was even a month ago...this site has helped me tremendously as well as IC and reconnecting with family and friends.
I'm continuing to reconcile with myself and be happy with who I truly am at my core...no matter what mud WW slings at me, I think deep down in her heart she knows who I truly am and is saying those things to justify her behavior.
Last edited by loweinsd51; 06/24/1005:31 PM.
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10
Yesterday WW TM'd that I should look at a certain store for DD's cell phones. I waited about 4 hours before I replied "OK". About an hour and a half later, WW TM's me contact info for someone I should ask about the quality of cell phones...didn't reply to that TM.
WTF? like I can't figure out if a cell phone is good or not?
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10
The last few days, WW has initiated all TM's and I've waited 2 - 3 hours before replying to the TM's I decide to reply to. Mostly DD logistical stuff but she has initiated none the less.
Tonight during drop off I informed WW of my July 4th plans with DD's
WW: That's a holiday and we haven't discussed holiday plans yet M: It's a Sunday and that is during the weekend which I have DD's for weekends. WW: We need to discuss it M: We'll discuss it later.
I then gave each DD a hug, kiss, and I Love You then I left without so much as a glance in WW's direction.
Last edited by loweinsd51; 06/28/1003:44 AM.
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10
I would like to add the following text to our TSO:
"DD's are to have no verbal or physical communication with any person, or said persons family, who is currently involved in a physical/or emotional extra marital affair with either spouse."
Thoughts?
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10
"Both spouses agree to not bring people of the oppositive sex around the children for a period of no less than six (6) months following the date of this agreement."
"Both spouses agree to not bring people of the oppositive sex around the children for a period of no less than six (6) months following the date of this agreement."
Like that Puppy, but can it be said 'for the duration of this agreement, and, should dissolution of marriage occur, for no less than a six (6) month period following the date of dissolution of marriage'?
or is that beyond the scope of a separation agreement?
Last edited by elvencat; 06/28/1004:41 PM.
Me 32, H 34, DD 3 M 6, T 8 Bomb 03/10 OW Bomb 6/5/10 Separate & NC 6/28/10 My 2nd EA Thread
Yes, and it can say whatever you want it to, but as my atty told me, "Good luck trying to enforce it." You more or less put it in there b/c it's The Right Thing to Do, but these things are classically unforceable (and routinely ignored).
Yes, and it can say whatever you want it to, but as my atty told me, "Good luck trying to enforce it." You more or less put it in there b/c it's The Right Thing to Do, but these things are classically unforceable (and routinely ignored).
Puppy
Yeah, was afraid of that, but makes me feel better to have it there anyway.
Me 32, H 34, DD 3 M 6, T 8 Bomb 03/10 OW Bomb 6/5/10 Separate & NC 6/28/10 My 2nd EA Thread
