Yes, I have been there already with jumping into a relationship too fast. From this point on I will just tell women that I am not ready for anything serious.
My ExW seems to be going out of her way lately to thank me for various things. I gave her a coke the other night at my apartment and as she was about to drive away she yelled out the window of her car for me to come back. When I got back to the car she thanked me for the coke. I went to the house 2 nights ago to bring D8's shoes to her and I ended up putting D2 in bed and rubbing her back until she went to sleep. ExW thanked me before I left for everything. After I got back to my apartment she sent me a long text thanking me for bringing the shoes and putting D2 in bed. We talked a bit(text) and I told her she was "such a good Mommy to our girls" she then responded with, "And you are an awesome Daddy." I don't know if I have ever heard her say that before. I told her that was nice to hear and she said, "it's true." Looks like she is noticing some things.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final