Wow! That plan sounds amazing and wow on this also:-

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I've just decided to let go of any weirdness and just be myself. If he doesn't like it, he doesn't ever have to reply.

DO IT !! Brilliant idea. I think that was suggested ages ago, just drop the DBing and be yourself, be real, whatever he thinks to it. Love it! Course you cant press the fast forward button and now you're there.

Me and bf both had chances, like you, at 'breaks' in our life path when we could have just taken off to America/Australia and neither of us got around to it. And now of course we are trying for kids, its not an option. So good for you for actually doing what alot of people talk about doing in the UK and dont manage to.


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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