She busted out a three page letter basically going over every bad thing I have done since we got married. It wasn't pretty. OUCH! In any event, I get the impression that she needs me to take more responsibility and validate her feelings.
This is a gift. It also means your wife is still engaged in your marriage. She wants you to "hear" and "see" her. She wants you to lead the family. Do not defend yourself this is how she feels. (unless she mind-reads, tells you what you think/believe/feel).
What did she write? How can you address her in a positive way? This is a big clue on what she needs to feel loved.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
