Always for you Mila...well almost always, when you do for you for the right reason. Never for the MLCer unless it is also for the right reason.
Not because he doesn't want you too.
"The friend of my enemy is also my...enemy."
Just bear that in mind.
There might come a day when you have to re-evalute that relationship, and for you that day isn't right now. : )
For me? I am a huge advocate of not snooping. Snooping brings pain. Does a person really need to know how many condoms they went through in a night? The price of the hotel they stayed at? That it was the same one the spouse and the LBSer went to on their 3.25 year anniversary? Crap like that...
And to me...talking with the OW's H is very much like snooping when it comes down to what the MLCers are doing.
All that being said Mila...YOU seem to have a good grip on it. So my worry also seems unfounded.
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