And if both parties in the affair are married? Then who is the predator and who's being taken advantage of?
Each case is different, you have your yard sticks :
a. Who TRIES to end it b. WHo is making most of the phone calls and meetings? c. Who is tryign to communicat with their spouse and who is abusing their spouse? d. Who is experiencing other problems in their life (death of loved one, miscarriage, loss of job, etc?)
These factors affect the accountability in my opinion
