Geronimo is right SR. I know there were times when I lost it with my wife and all that happened was negative. Sure, it felt good to call her names and rip a strip off her but, in the end, it wasn't worth it. It didn't happen often but we were living together while the SA was being finalized so it was difficult. So vent, punch your pillow, cry...do whatever will get you some relief but don't bother going for the kill, there is nothing to be gained...really!
