My wife was having issues with her computer late last night. She tried texting me and calling, but I didn't return any of them right away. I then replied back that I received the voice mail and text, but I was just getting back in from being out. I have the copy of the text below. I know I shouldn't talk about R but accusing me of seeing other women really hurt me.
W -I tried to call u but u don't answer. Hope everything ok!
M -Sorry I am just getting back in. Everything is fine.
W -Tryin to get my computer to get online and it won't .
M -I can talk you thru it to get it to work.
W -Ok call me
Calling (I helped her out and was in the process of telling her bye, but then she started with who I went out with. I said I went out, had a good time and needed to get off to bed. Bye)
W -I don't u just confirmed it u tellin "just out" tells me (meaning the with someone)
M -And am I not allowed to go out now?
W -No go out !!! But just beware u start Dating I will too
M -Beware of what?
W -Never mind
M -One I said I went out. I never said it was with anyone. Two I DO NOT want to date, I want to save our marriage. I have not and would never go to another woman. It is not me. I may have my faults to correct, but being with another woman is not even on my mind.
Just to let you know, I was out with someone. I took the kids out for putt putt and supper. I know I have not been perfect, but. I am willing to change and be the best father and husband I can be to all three of our kids and to my wife. We had fun, I had fun. I told them I am sorry we did not do this before, but we will try to have a family night once a month. I don't care what it cost but we need to go out and have fun.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10