Crap, I screwed up once again.

My wife was having issues with her computer late last night. She tried texting me and calling, but I didn't return any of them right away. I then replied back that I received the voice mail and text, but I was just getting back in from being out. I have the copy of the text below. I know I shouldn't talk about R but accusing me of seeing other women really hurt me.


W -I tried to call u but u don't answer. Hope everything ok!

M -Sorry I am just getting back in. Everything is fine.

W -Tryin to get my computer to get online and it won't .

M -I can talk you thru it to get it to work.

W -Ok call me

Calling
(I helped her out and was in the process of telling her bye, but then she started with who I went out with. I said I went out, had a good time and needed to get off to bed. Bye)

W -I don't u just confirmed it u tellin "just out" tells me (meaning the with someone)

M -And am I not allowed to go out now?

W -No go out !!! But just beware u start
Dating I will too

M -Beware of what?

W -Never mind


M -One I said I went out. I never said it was with anyone. Two I DO NOT want to
date, I want to save our marriage. I have not and would never go to another
woman. It is not me. I may have my faults to correct, but being with another
woman is not even on my mind.

Just to let you know, I was out with someone. I took the kids out for putt putt
and supper. I know I have not been perfect, but. I am willing to change and be
the best father and husband I can be to all three of our kids and to my wife. We
had fun, I had fun. I told them I am sorry we did not do this before, but we
will try to have a family night once a month. I don't care what it cost but we
need to go out and have fun.


Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10