But let me just say this, You are with your wife now, but I doubt you would give OM anything less than a kick in the head if you had the chance.. I can't imagine you are in contact at all... He got off easy in my opinion...
That's a straw man, Allen. One you promised to be with 'til death do you part, and the other you didn't know from a hole-in-the-ground until the ordeal happened.
Yes, there are conditions that lead cheating spouses to cheat, but that doesn't absolve them from their poor decision to try to solve their problems by having an affair. I absolutely agree that OM/OW are "predators," and categorize them as such in my posts, but to lay only 10% of the responsibility for the affair at the feet of the cheating spouse is letting THEM off way too easy.
