She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[tbart01]

Amen Steady, i have to agree. it doesn't make it any easier while we go through it, but it's the truth.

To clarify the getting along thing. We always have, and still are despite what we're going through is what I meant.

She told me yesterday that she see's D as the only option at this point, but that even after the d is final we may still find ourselves back together. She said she will never close that door.

I must say i really don't understand this logic at all. The other option is to work on this thing and know for sure we've gone down every avenue.

i will say that it's much easier being together when we're not forcibly trying to work on us. it was difficult when we had pre scheduled date nights and other time together.

now we have nothing to lose so to speak so we go with the flow. She still wants to spend time together, we're just not actively working on us.

i hired my attorney yesterday, and we're proceeding until something changes. i have no choice at this point but to now move on rather than forward.