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Basically it boils down to him being bummed out that he can't cake eat, keep all his options open indefinitely, and have the best of all worlds. Call 1-800-WAAAAAH dude. You deserve to be with a man who can take 100% responsibility for his choices.


Yes,lmao!And yet he is the one who is closing his "options!" It is what I wanted originally- for him to be the one to have to carry through with the D so he can face what he has done. But I guess I would have had some satisfaction in being the one to divorce him. Hmmm. Well, I am 55% pleased he found his balls and did it.

You know something- it does make me feel WORSE that he is going through with D while being uncertain. I am disposable. to him. ouch! but, alas, he is being such an idiot.

Last edited by newmama; 06/24/10 06:26 AM.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004