City girl I have taken the advice. I have detached, blocked her facebook, busted her 1st affair. I have not contacted her, been collecting evidence and have OM1 W agreed to testify in a divorce case.
I have dropped the rope, let go, but I had been looking over here at this forum noticing the aggressive stance on affair busting. I had actually taken that initiative before I went dark. When I seen that she started dating again, and had OM1 W tell me to watch out, because she is trying to draw me out.
That is when I blocked facebook. But I got observing some of these threads and wondered if dropping the rope is not appropriate at this time. I have enough ammo to cause this new relationship to bust, I am wondering if I should do that.
I know WAW seems mentally ill, but well I feel she is bound to hit rock bottom sooner or later and maybe then she will seek the real help she needs.
This new OM is a real piece of crap, and well he should have never been around my DD1. That is one reason I got to thinking about busting this new affair.
She is really trying to hurt me with her vindictive ways, but I feel once the dust settles, she may come around. If she does well, I would ask her to seek help and support her with that to keep our family together.
If not well I move on. I just wanted advice on if this affair is worth busting or if there is anything else I should be doing?
M 36 W 29 Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months Daughter 15 months Bomb 4/22/10 Separated since 4/25/10 OM 6/10/10 Hopeful, but moving on
