I don't think my H wants to keep my hooked. I think my H doesn't have the best friend he had in me with OW. She is pretty and I am guessing a good roll in the hay but knowing what I know of her she is not the "good girl" I am. She is not the fiercely loyal person I am. My H will never find another best friend like me. He knows that.
Citygirl--exactly! I guess "hooked" wasn't the best adverb. He wants to keep you around, involved, attached...
and just to clarify- YES- I think the WHs need to end their As before they can change! Sorry if that wasn't clear.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004