Can I just lose my cool for once? pleaseeee? can I just tell her how much of a loser she is now that I see her true colors? When do I get to say it?...
So...can I just say something?
You can say it whenever you want. 1) It doesn't change anything 2) It doesn't make you feel better, really, because she doesn't HEAR it. Yeah, been there - ooohhhh I'm going to make a really good point here... and it doesn't penetrate. Because she has a different point of view. So you'll be just as frustrated after as you were before. And you'll feel more deflated. 3) It makes tensions run higher, which as some of the others pointed out, is counterproductive to your goals. The process you're going through, every comment is a hair-trigger. Perfectly reasonable things to say can throw you guys around the bend. It's in your own best interests to keep things as level as possible.
Originally Posted By: StupidRomeo
Of course, she's surrounded by several divorced women friends lately
