Hi Newmama,

I guess I'll be joining you here soon enough. I'm not spending much time on the forum now, but it's always good to read your posts and I'm glad to have caught up with you. I'm glad to read that you're working on taking it one day at a time. That will help you to stay grounded.

It annoys me that your stbxWH is making such wishy washy statements to you. Basically it boils down to him being bummed out that he can't cake eat, keep all his options open indefinitely, and have the best of all worlds. Call 1-800-WAAAAAH dude. You deserve to be with a man who can take 100% responsibility for his choices.

Glad you're setting boundaries about the exchange of S...it's good practice for you.

(((hugs)))


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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