Reeling, so sorry about the "bad" of your anniversary dinner. It hurts, I know. I can't begin to understand the Jekyll-Hyde behavior of WAS -- I've just come to expect it after being on this board for a few months now.
Actually, at this point, I guess I've come to the point where I expect NOTHING of WAH ... and that's pretty much what I've been getting lately. No texts, emails or any of the other stuff he used to send regularly, even after the bomb. Just have to keep telling myself (and telling yourself), "It's his problem, not mine."