Mila,

I don't know...you justified your R with OW's H very well.

Dropping or "cutting the rope as Twink said", means, to do just that!

Does it help you to 'know" what is going on with your H"

The less I know about what is happening with my H, the better for me!

I agree (although I am not sure that I have not truly done this myself) that you have not TRULY dropped the rope......

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing