Did you ever think you would be relieved to be in the "friend zone?" I mean are you? To me it sounds like "phew! no pressure!" And when we aren't looking or expecting anything, it seems like that's when we get "hit on!"
It will be good for your ego, too.. They tell us to be friends with the opposite sex during this time but not to get into a relationship either.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004