I just received and email from H: FYI I live by myself.
The news makes me very happy. My skin is tingling. I am grinning. The news makes me sad. He must be miserable. The news makes me scared. There is a lot on my list that I want to do before I have to start dealing with him again. I don't know if I am emotionally ready to deal with him again. I got to liking the darkness! (I was so afraid to go dark, so this is ironic) SO! What do I do with this info!
2 weeks ago I met with him to reiterate my stand. I told him he knew where I stood. He said "Yeah, dump her and come home". I said "No, I think coming home is off the table for now. You need to live alone for awhile." And here we are.
Curiosity is killing me. How did this come about? Did he finally tell her how he felt about me? Did she give him an ultimatum? (start the D or leave) Does he plan to continue to see her or are they done?
Based on my reactions right now, I won't reply right away. (but I'm dying to know more details.)
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
