Are there any women in the approximate age range 40-65 who want sex 5-10 times per week? Or are there any who would at least put up with a partner who wanted it that often? And I'm talking about imaginative, erotic, tantric sexual massage, energetic, fantasy-enchanced, loving, candlelight, etc., sex, not just cold mechanical frequency. And I'm talking about sustaining that kind of energy for years, not just through the honeymoon and a few weeks after.
I sometimes feel that if I were to leave my SSM and look for a compatible sexual partner, I'd have a hard time finding someone near my age who would have the same erotic energy. It's discouraging to read that a typical "good" long-term marriage in midlife has sex no more than about 1-2 times per week. And a fellow poster on this forum mentioned that she considered herself HD, and would like sex once a week?!? I feel like a sexual freak. I'm in my late 50's, and my sex drive is still about the same as when I was a teenager.
A male friend of mine, about my age, told me recently that at this point in his life, with regard to sex, "he could take it or leave it", and wouldn't be upset if he never had partnered sex the rest of his life. And he's a guy and in perfectly good health otherwise?!?! I feel like most people my age are sexually dead, not to mention my wife.
Is my only hope to look for a much younger woman? Surely there must be some exceptions out there closer to my age, someone who is my sexual female counterpart?
