Thanks for the support, I don't want to interfere in their relationship but I will ALWAYS be an advocate for my kids. Nathan already comes to me when he has a problem (recently kids at school made fun of him for wearing a shirt with Woody from Toy Story on it and said Toy Story clothes were for little kids--mind you he's only seven!)...we talk things over and try to find solutions together. I want to lay the groundwork now so that as he is older he can feel comfortable talking to me.