Mel, my default accountability setup is 10% WS and 90% OP... your H was vulnerable and OP took advantage, that's how it is in many cases...
Bullshit. It's 50/50.
Puppy
We will have to put that one on a different thread...
But let me just say this, You are with your wife now, but I doubt you would give OM anything less than a kick in the head if you had the chance.. I can't imagine you are in contact at all... He got off easy in my opinion...
I can back down on the 90/10 a few points, but even most experts give a background on how the affair happened and point to emotional volatility of the WS being a large incentive...
Give it some thought, we can hammer it out elsewhere at a later time
