Tell him that you are concentrating on your needs and the baby's right now so he needs to back off and give you some space.
I would send this as a text message so you don't get sucked into a R talk where your emotions could get the better of you.
I will ABSOLUTELY be standing my ground!!! But, I will pick up phone call tomorrow. It has more of an impact on him when I say "no" by phone than by text lol...
If you can read my last few entries, I am GAL'ing because it's best for me, my baby and our future. But at this point, I do not know if I'm DB'ing anymore. I AM A GREAT CATCH!!!! WHY am I putting up with this?!?!?!
But then I know...it's because I love him. But I don't know what's left to save.....as everyone has been saying....my family, friends and even people on here...he's not worth it....
I wish there as a pill I could take so I could just completely emotionally detach
M:27 H: 33 M:10/07 T:9 yrs H moves away for drug recovery: 3/2010 ILYBINILWY & wants D:5/02/10 Confirmed OW:5/21 Told MIL:5/25(only concerned about H's recovery) Told FIL:5/28(will speak to him)