"After some persisitance I agree to meet and she lays on me how she cannot believe what she has done and she was taken advantage of by OM, and fell for it hook line and sinker"
Buffet, I'm not real convinced when she blames her actions on OM, how HE took advantage of her and how she FELL FOR IT hook line and sinker. Where's her responsibility, who made that choice? The rest was about how her family won't talk to her etc. I don't hear any recognition of the suffering she's put you through or that she was WRONG or anything else that smacks of remorse. Go slow...real slow!
