Thanks for the replies...I really appreciate it.

I am so grateful that I was able to receive that email and feel it as a blow, but not be devastated by it. And talking with some friends and feeling the love helps me to know that there is more than divorce in my life.

Freckle, your post is helpful to me. You are so wise.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp
.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.