Originally Posted By: newmama
Geronimo, thanks! But aren't you guys also romantically involved? The lines are a little blurry and that is something I am aiming to do...

1)see stbxh and think "here is my son's father." and nothing else! NO ROMANTIC FEELINGS! NO ANGER! NO HURT!
2)be able to discuss issues around raising S without feeling resentful and the above
3)not show S any of my negative feelings toward stbxh (so far, I am achieving this only step of the 3!)
4)no friendship. let's face it, stbxh is just a Baby Daddy.


We’re not romantically involved.
We are still working through the crap between the two of us.
But we are able to be respectful, work together regarding the bugs, and we’re doing the 50% thing with a daily handoff. She has the day, I’ve got the night starting at 6:00.
Speaking of which – need to motor…