Im pretty sure she has waited for the boys to go to camp and get out to drop bomb #2 on me. Going to try to be calm cool and collective. If not Sat, Sun night for sure.
Damn I hate this for my children, I have no idea how anyone with the life she has to be willing to break this to those boys faces.
I fought the last one off, I do not know how to fight this one, I guess a lot of fault is mine because of my smartass mouth.
You may do some things you are not supposed to do or out of character. I dunno. When someone is literally in a walking coma behind their affair, what the hell can you do to get through?
She is not in an affair as far as I know, I kinda wish she was, it would explain more. Maybe she has one pegged to go after. But, I have her email account, cell phone records and she does very little work outside of the house.
2 more days until she comes home. Spoke to her last evening. All pleasant, distant but pleasant. Was going out with some of her friends last night.
My business partner and friend came up and helped me a great deal last night. Making me get going on what needs to be done, making me get out of the house and go out to eat. He is a good friend. By the way, he was shocked about hearing this, he said he used to wish that his marriage was like mine, the way we get along and so forth. He wants to call her and give her a what for, but I told him not to.
OK, wife called, spoke a while and then I just asked her if we could talk when she came home (thought I would take it away from her as I was going nuts) she said what about, I just want to see if we can start communicating better and if we could see a MC to start. She said that she would, then I asked her if she was planning a big talk after she came home, she said she had not.
Maybe I was worrying about this too much, but with finding those notes I guess I made my mind up. Maybe she is just using that as an outlet.
So, Will try to arrange that MC next week with her. She still sounds distant though. Going to invite the kids to bed with us tomorrow night as a sign that I am not all about banging her, lol.
1,000th post, whew. Wife came home Saturday with my boys all in good spirits. After I found her diary of events (or her recount of my faults and mistakes) I have used that information to address some things that I was truly at fault on, and will continue to try to improve myself everyday, for her, myself and the boys.
Last two days I have not pressured her at all, and she has responded well. I will text her today re: MC for our communication breakdowns.
Woke up this morning to a smile and a "Good Morning" from her. She is worried about my heel (hurts terribly) and wants me to see someone asap about it.
I have used that information to address some things that I was truly at fault on, and will continue to try to improve myself everyday, for her, myself and the boys.
Surely you mean " . . . for my boys, for myself, and for her."
