Ok Sandi i ask you this as a women would you even care about what might happen to your children if you did divorce your husband?

Even in the DB book it desribes what what could happen.

Do you belive that people should be educated on thes facts.

I belive he does not have to tell her but leave the info around for her to find.

If she finds them just say i was researhing on our stich.


My wife was a complete mess when i told her what i did not want to happen to OUR son about growing up with out both parents and what she would do to our family from the choises that she made.

She has put the divorce on hold because she needs more time to think.We had mediation the night before the divorce was to be final when i told her that. The next day we were in court and she told the juidge she need more time to think things throug.
I wish i would of said these thing early on butt i never did.


Me 37
Waw 32
son2
bomb 8/11/09
O/M 12/25/09
Divorce filed 8/25/09
divorce finale 6/16/10
Divorce putt on hold 6/16/10
Divorce postponed STBXW idea 8/8/10