twolf, the more you "preach" to a WAW, the further she'll move away! That is exactly how some LBH's come across with all their finger-pointing, "thou shalt nots","you sinner you", "I'm much better" sermons. If my H had shown me some books about how D affects children or anything on D/M.....I would have slung it back in his face. You might as well be trying to save a demon from hell.
In respect of MWD, perhaps there are a very precious few and far between women who are in "doubt" of S/D, but when you have one who is in an A, I beg to differ.
Last edited by sandi2; 06/24/1012:14 AM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
