I often wonder the same thing about my H. How on EARTH he can be so dense and thoughtless. Ever since he moved in with OW (about two months ago) he has been sending me random texts wanting to come over for dinner (note: he has not been allowed to step foot in my house since May of 2008), telling me he is thinking of me and he thinks of me often and so on.
Oh Wow! City Girl...
reminds me of that movie (didnt watch it, just saw previews) with Alec Baldwin and Merrel Streep. the one where they are divorced from each other and years later have affairs w/ each other!