I think anytime she hits you with something you don't know what to say.....you can just tell her you'll need to think about it and you'll get back to her.
From my experience, he is going to be saying that a lot if she really knows how to push his buttons.
Everytime I think I know how to respond to my STBXW's stuff, she throws out a real doozy, and suprise emotion pops up, and I have to think about it, but then... she goes right back to the same stuck place she was in before she left, so the trick is not to react AT ALL when you feel that emotion welling up because she found a chink in your new armor.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
