I think you should play the reunion meeting by ear. He may not even turn up. If he does, stick to business, unless he brings up R talk. Then, just listen. This would be an opportunity to hear what he has planned, if anything. There will be two other people, so it is unlikely he will discuss anything personal.

You are doing really well. Keep up the good work. You don't sound as obsessive as you were in the beginning. Detachment must be working, unless I'm reading you wrong.

Just continue to realize that you cannot control what he does, but you can control YOU and how you handle the sitch.

Take care.

PS Not sure about the alt. I have a few db'ers from years back on my facebook, but I don't generally share it with anyone anymore.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim