[quote=Piano It's called stalling for time and not rocking the boat you while you are still pregnant.
I feel a lot of hope for your sitch BD, but think you best prepare yourself for the worst. My WH got rather more possessive about the child - and cared a lot less about me - post birth. i.e. once the baby is out, it's a whole new ballgame.
Sorry to sound so dark, BD. Just been there... [/quote]
Piano, no apologies... i am preparing myself for this. Every day! I am well aware that my sicth could be this way permanently.
I have no doubts he will be there for the baby and cares for him and wants to be an involved dad... doesnt mean he wants to be a H to me.
