I'm so sorry you've had such a bad day, Barkley. Don't let the letter discourage you and the work you are doing to try to save your marriage; instead, use it to empower you to keep becoming a better person, both for yourself and for your family. Congratulations on being sober for 4 months; that is a huge success. We've all made mistakes in our marriages that could take up several pages of a letter. The important thing is that you are aware of what areas you need to work on! Keep your chin up!
