He's a good man, he'll do what's right. But, I know in these sitches sometimes that can get really clouded. When you've been crapped on for years, and I mean years, it's so amazing to come across someone who'll treat you like a valued and lovable man. It's easy to twist that into being right. I'm here to give guidance and that's why he called me. I had the same thing, "OP understands me, we know what the other is thinking without having to say it" blah blah blah! Thanks everyone for your thoughts, it's helped me to think his sitch through as well!
Just to clarify, it was my W saying the "OP understands me...blah blah blah". I've got a reputation to uphold here on the DB board...not much of one but it is a reputation
