If he loves spending time with you, why don't you stop spending time with him and see what happens?
Um, he might start missing you...
I try. Honestly! more so because i would never ask him to do anything with me or hang out with me... out of fear he'd day no. I dont initiate any calls or texts. And then he calls and texts me. And with so much to do to get ready for the baby, and he is willing to help with every thing and i thinkn he should!
So we had a few not so nice days. I havent been feeling well, and I pressed a few buttons. today was nice. H laughed when he saw my belly! Amazing how he is so darn excited about the baby!
Today, I stayed home from work to get things done around the house, and pretty much because I have so much pressure and few contractions! H said he was coming over to install new closet in the baby's room. He did all the hard work, I watched and supervised We talked and had nice conversations... he mentioned us a few times, mostly baby. No arguments, all positive! At one point I was so tired and exhausted i went to my room to lay down. Boy a power nap can really help! H came in to see if I was ok. Then tapped on the door and stuck his head in to say it was done! The Jerk did a great job!
We cleaned up together and at one point found him laying on the bed with the dog... Huh? Guess he is just comfy here...
Still so much to do! said he'd be back to help out!
i said I have to get my bag ready and he said he has had his ready... overnight clothes, and the video camera is charged and ready to roll!
Overall good day. happy things are getting done for the baby! tonight I started washing a few hand me downs for when the baby is born! Furniture gets delivered this week and i can put all his tiny clothes and belongings away! My house looks like a baby store thre up all over it!
