According to some research on the internet, in the state I live in, if I dont sign and send back the letter of acceptance of service with the D papers, the state can proceed without me. So for all I know, I could be divorced before I have my H's baby.
Would be my luck.
mentioned this to H and he said they told him if i dont sign within 90 days, it works differently and takes up to two years. He was a little put off and said its not possible... i said then stop them! and he laughed... jokingly and said if i stop them will you stop talkibg about it!
