Still trying to find my way

[Mystik]

You are both right, I definitely need to detach more. The trick is to detach without letting go of hope.

There is not much to discuss regarding DS's schooling now that the year is at an end. I will work with DS on his reading and math over the summer, H knows that they are areas of concern form me so if he feels inclined to work with DS he can ask me for ideas or worksheets to work on.

As for summer activities, I'll give him a photocopy of the facility's summer schedule of activities with the kids. Other places that I choose to take DS on my weekends with him are none of H's business.

The money, though. That is a tougher area. I think I'll wait to see how much he gives me once the daycare reimburses him and then go from there. Hopefully he'll be able to give me most of it.