Exposure isn't just about embarassing the spouse, though that's part of the driver no doubt...
What about your H's family? Think about all the people who were there at your wedding who were really helpful.. THOSE are the SAME people you want to turn to AGAIN when things are BAD like this...
Marriages are the building blocks of community.. people come together when things are good :
weddings, children, graduations, etc
people come together when things are bad :
injury, cancer, problem teenagers, natural disasters, infidelity
This is teh time to rally your circle togehter to support you fighting for your marriage...
Exposure isnt' about villifying the WS, its about having all your family and friends on your side supporting his safe return to the family
Yes, BASH the OW completely if you can... but in this case, its at work so more delicate...
But there MUST be people you can bring into the loop who will HELP you once they know what's going on...
Your HUSBAND will be furious, but it does HELP to ahve friends and family on the side of saving the marriage
