Well here's mine

[Barkley]

She said that for the first time she understands where my wife is coming from. She said we should talk more about everything in the letter and that I need to make "amends". She suggested the AA twelve steps, even though I have been sober for 4 months. The worst part about the letter is that everything she brought up in it is true. Granted there was never any infidelity, abuse or anything else like that.....really just imaturity and negligence on my part.

I want to validate her feelings but don't want to be a pushover either

HELP!