One other exposure card I hold is the OW's BF. Not even 100% sure they are still dating. I think it was mentioned before that this might push OW and H together, which is why I haven't done it. However, given that OW's BF works with both of them, this might create workplace pressure without alerting head partners. [Yes, I know, OW is completely ridiculous with the other workplace romances]. The other benefit would be that it would be another source of intel if we compared "stories." Can't weigh risks vs. benefits of that one. Wish she was married - that would make exposure easier.
