Of course he's going to be so very attentive and concerned about where you are going to stay. He knows darn good and well that he's the reason for you having to sell and move out. Of course, he doesn't want you to cut all contact, he would then be forced to look in the mirror and see the immature cad he truly is.
A lot of them pull these stunts just before the divorce. They don't want us to harbor ill feelings for them and, of course, they want to come across so nice and concerned for all to see.
Nothing says you will end up hating him, but I can tell you this...if I were in your shoes, once everything was finalized, I'll go completely dark on him for a while. He needs to realize what he's done and what he actually has lost...YOU!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
