M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
I would like to hear thoughts from Greek or Sandi2 regarding a thoughtful course of action?
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
Well so much for the warm and fuzzy feelings. Cranky chick has already returned. I tries to put the moves on last night and got shot down. I ask her a simple question and she snaps at me this morning (sigh). I am starting to just want to say "fu*k it".....I deserve someone that is going to show me love and affection
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
I swear.....I haven't spent this much "recreational time" with myself since I was 16
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
I have an impending sense of doom today.....please go away
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
How are you doing? Sounds like we are struggling with some same issues. Stay strong. It's hard feeling unappreciated and disrespected. I've lived that way for almost 17 months, today being my 12th anniversary, and not an ounce of kindness from my spouse.
How are you doing? Sounds like we are struggling with some same issues. Stay strong. It's hard feeling unappreciated and disrespected. I've lived that way for almost 17 months, today being my 12th anniversary, and not an ounce of kindness from my spouse.
On not an ounce of kindness, many of us know how it feels. I wish I didn't know. Do things that you like to do.
Hmmmm.....great Father's Day and good last couple of days. I have a MC session tomorrow. I am hopeful that the wife is feeling better about us.....I will let you guys know
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
BRUTAL MC session. Based on the feedback my wife has received from some of our friends, she feels as though I have tried to turn much of this around on her by chalking this up to a midlife crisis/depression and not taken full responsibility for my actions. She busted out a three page letter basically going over every bad thing I have done since we got married. It wasn't pretty. OUCH! In any event, I get the impression that she needs me to take more responsibility and validate her feelings. Now I am not sure how to proceed....do I try and DB (not working)or do I validate?
Help!
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
