I'm not giving up, either. It's not over until the last paper is signed but it sure feels like this train has left the station and is running over the edge of a cliff. I'm protecting my financial future and my future as a Dad. You can "fire" me as a husband but you can't "fire" me as a Dad.
I'm going dark, dark, dark. The only contact is to talk to my son. Everything else is silent. I've got to move on with my life, do the work I need to do to be a better man and father. If she wants to fix this she can but she's got to want it and right now she simply does not want it.
She'll have to hit bottom before she'll be willing to do the introspection necessary to move forward.
I love her but I've got to protect myself.
You hang in there, too. Keep the faith and look out for yourself.
