Still trying to find my way

[Mystik]

SouthPaw, I have been as dark as one can be when a child is shared between us. I actually think I went too dark and now am not sure how to proceed. H said he thinks that I've been stand-offish lately. Oops, that was certainly not my goal.

I'm not actively pursuing him, just considering writing him a letter with how I feel and not sending it right away. I would only send it if he initiates an R talk and it is all about a divorce. Then I would want to at least have my say so then I would send him the letter.