I just got home from seeing my T, she mentioned that my W isn't showing any desperation to save the marriage. She also said why hasn't she offered to stop speaking with OM???

I know there are several opinions out there but my T made me feel like my W is playing me right now. She has started to see the ramifications of D and her having to move out and losing her home. I know it's early in the game and my W has mentioned working on things.

I guess time will tell.


M: 36
W: 29
S: 2.5
EA: 2/2010 OM1
D Bomb: 3/2010
PA: 6/2010 OM2
W moved out 8/2010
Loc: DE, USA