Still trying to find my way

[Mystik]

Talked to H on the way home about daycare. He initially called to confirm that I did not get DS from daycare today because it's H's day, which he confirmed yesterday. He then asked about daycare for next week and I told him that DS is going to the cheaper place. He was furious about the change in where DS will be going, said that he's been going crazy trying to get the money to the original facility by the due dates he was given, I didn't say much other than I told him I had sent that letter requesting permission to withdraw DS. H said he knew that but didn't hear anything else so he didn't think it went anywhere. He asked what his tab with me was and I told him, he was stunned it got so high. I offered to send him tomorrow what the breakdown was and he said to please do. I also suggested he call the facility and see about getting his money refunded, he said he would do that and then be able to pay me.

A short time after we ended the call he texted asking me why I hadn't told him about the change in daycare sooner. I replied that I just got the letter on Saturday, it said they sent him one and he's been standoffish lately so I assumed he would read the letter. An hour later he texted back that was funny because he thought the same about me.

So now, HELP! I feel like this is H trying to reach out to me, and it's my opportunity to try and improve our communications, to start and break down the giant wall between us but I don't know the best way to respond. Anyone with experience have any suggestions?