Check his phone when he takes a shower.. if he has it locked, you have your answer.. there's only ONE REASON to lock up a cell phone... to HIDE something...
Those who have nothing to hide, hide NOTHING
If he's hiding something he's cheating
I would think he would be smart enough to delete anything worth seeing - but you never know! I did check it weeks ago when I was in snooping mode: didn't find anything. I stopped snooping after an email back and forth between the 2 of us in which I said the following:
1. If you want to go, Go. It's not what I want but love must be free and I will let you go and I will be OK.
2. If you want to move out yet, "date", I don't think so - not if it involves you having other relationships. I will not be in an open marriage. Yet, I think dating would be a good idea if that's what you want to do, but not if you are having inappropriate relationships.
3. If you want to move into the home office, that's certainly your prerogative . I feel like I am giving you more than enough space but you do what you feel you need to do.
These were all nicely, but firmly stated - in response to his suggestions for our relationship. I would gladly post the whole exchange here if I thought it'd help someone else! (I was proud of what I said and how I said it.) Since then, he has not moved out of our bedroom, not gone out after work or been mean. Yet, he has not been affectionate either and not said ILY (which he was stilll saying before the email exchange) and he continues his nightly jogging. I know the jogging seems pretty innocent - yet, I can't get over the fact that his clothes are not gross and sweaty as they should be when he returns home. AND he's gone for an hour usually. However, if I were having an affair - I certainly wouldn't be going out to hook up like he's dressed! lol
