D - DAY HAS ARRIVED

[lea74]

Are my expectations too high??? I keep expecting my XH to feel some remorse or guilt for the decision that he made but instead I just keep venom spewed at me.

We got into an email tug of war today. I know I know I should go dark but for once I just didnt feel like him having the last word.

For someone who wanted nothing to do with me why does he continue to send me emails etc. He just will not take responsibilty for his decision and continues to blame me for everything.

My S7's birthday is coming up. We orignally said we would do something as a family i.e. four of us, however now as he has a partner he expects us to do something as the 5 of us. What a riduculous idea - I am not prepared to be a fifth wheel. How can he expect me to spend time with them and recognise her as part of my life.

After the A, harrassing texts etc from the OW how can I possibly be expected to spend time with her?????????