BRUTAL MC session. Based on the feedback my wife has received from some of our friends, she feels as though I have tried to turn much of this around on her by chalking this up to a midlife crisis/depression and not taken full responsibility for my actions. She busted out a three page letter basically going over every bad thing I have done since we got married. It wasn't pretty. OUCH! In any event, I get the impression that she needs me to take more responsibility and validate her feelings. Now I am not sure how to proceed....do I try and DB (not working)or do I validate?
Help!
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling